If you're struggling, don't do it alone. Get some help. Here are some common issues... 

1. Self-doubt: You may be struggling with self-doubt and low self-esteem, which can hold you back from pursuing your goals and living a fulfilling, purposeful life. 

2. Relationship issues: Relationship issues can take many forms, including conflicts with family members, friends, or romantic partners. Communication, trust, or intimacy can be a challenge, which can lead to tension and strain in your relationships.

3. Stress and anxiety: In today's fast-paced world, stress and anxiety can be a constant companion. Whether it's due to work, finances, health, or other factors, stress and anxiety can take a toll on your mental and physical health.

4. Time management: Many people struggle to balance their work, personal life, and other commitments. Poor time management can lead to stress, overwhelm, and burnout.

5. Lack of direction or purpose: You might be craving more passion, purpose in life or to reclaim or redefine your identity beyond a mother/partner. Lack of direction can lead to feelings of frustration, despair, and even depression. 

6. Health and wellness: Maintaining physical and mental health can be challenging because you always tend to everyone else's needs but your own. Poor diet, lack of exercise, and other lifestyle factors can contribute to health problems and a lower quality of life.

It's important to remember that everyone's journey is unique, and seeking support can help you overcome your challenges to create a more fulfilling, joyful life.